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The Difference One Teacher Made

This story is taken from August 2017 issue of a monthly publication "The Good News just keep coming" from Texas, USA ( www.thegoodnewsjustkeepcoming.net).

One day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name. Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down.

It took remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room, each one handed in the papers.

That Saturday, the teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper, and listed what everyone had said about that individual.

On Monday, she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. "Really?" she heard whispered. "I never knew that I meant anything to any one!" and, "I did not know others liked me so much,: were most of the comments. No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but it did not matter. The exercise has accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another, That group of students moved on. 

Several years later, one of the students was killed in the Vietnam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student. She has never seen a service man in a coffin before. He looked so handsome, so mature. The church was packed with his friends. One by one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin.

As she stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as the pallbearer came up to her. Were you Mark's math teacher?" he asked. She nodded. "Yes." Then he said, "Mark talked about you a lot." After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates went together to a luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak to his teacher.

"We want to show you something," his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket. "They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it." Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that have obviously been taped, folded and refolded amany times. The teacher knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which she has listed all the good things each of Mark's classmates had said about him.

"Thank you so much for doing that, Mark's mother said. "As you can see Mark treasured it." All of Mark's former classmates started to gather around. Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said, "I still have my list. It';s in the top drawer of my desk at home." Chuck's wife said, "Chuck asked me put this in our wedding album." "I have mine too. It's in my diary."

Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the group. "I carry this with me at all times," Vicki said and without batting an eyelash. She continued, "I think we all saved our lists."

That's when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She never realized what a difference this simple assignment had made in so many lives.

 

(copied from the original by Hiren Sarma, Katy, Texas.)